Sarah Towne

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Sarah introduces herself as just an “ole country tomboy”.  She was raised with her older brother, Alvie and younger sister, Linda, on the outskirts of the small town of Chillicothe, Missouri. (Sarah says that’s pronounced Ma-zer-uh).  They lived on very small farms where they raised most of their own vegetables and meat. In fact, she didn’t have indoor plumbing until she was 13.  Her mom went to work when Sarah was ten: a bookkeeper by day and a waitress by night.  Sarah took up the slack standing on a box to cook dinner, cleaning house and caring for sister, Linda who was only three.  Her father was “a jack of all trades, master of none”.  One of many jobs he worked while living on the farm was mucking out the livestock sale barn after week-end sales. 

 

One Saturday night he walked into the kitchen with a newborn pig whose mother had rolled on him crushing his hip.  He asked his wife if she could do anything to save it.  (Thinking of all the bacon and ham they would have a few months later.)  She said no and he said he’d take it out behind the barn and knock it in the head with the hammer at which point Sarah pitched a class A fit.  Finally mom took the pig, placed the body in a canning jar lid box, made splints with popsicle sticks, made a bed of a gunny sack in a bushel basket and prepared a bottle of milk with a rubber nipple.  She gave Sarah the bottle saying, “Here’s your pig.  Take care of it.” 

 

She took to the challenge and “Oinky” became the best pet she ever had.  He was never penned up and thought he was a dog.  He came when called and Sarah was heartbroken when he was hit by a car a few years later. (One of the many things the dogs taught him was to chase cars.)

 

She fondly remembers the one room schoolhouses she attended. She learned to dance the two-step and jitterbug around the potbellied stove when it was too snowy to be outside competing with the boys in sports.  She played both basketball and softball in high school.  The basketball talent came from her mother who was on the 1937 National Championship team in college.  In softball Sarah was a starting pitcher.

 

She went to work at the age of 14 serving meals at the hospital and then washing all the dishes. Other jobs she held during her high school years were waitress, carhop at A&W, soda jerk and keeping the books of a car dealership.

 

Upon graduation at the age of 17 there was no money for college, but her mother said she could scrape together enough for business school tuition if Sarah could take care of everything else.  So off she went to St. Joseph to live at the YWCA and work full-time as a waitress doing split shifts around her class schedule.  While there she did find time to try out for a semi-professional women’s basketball team.  Although they were interested in her, she decided she wouldn’t fit in with the tough women who chose this difficult career.  Especially since she only weighed 98 pounds wringing wet.

 

When she finished business school she returned to Chillicothe and went to work as a secretary for Churchill Truck Lines.  She met her first husband, Roger, when he came to town to splice cable for Southwestern Bell to modernize the telephone switching station.  After a few months of dating Sarah was disappointed one Saturday night when Roger announced, “All I brought into this one horse town was a suitcase and all I plan to take out of this town is a suitcase”. Crushed, she decided to try to enjoy the time they had left. Later that evening Sarah asked for a quarter for the jukebox so they could continue dancing.  Roger replied, “How can we save up enough money to get married, if I keep giving you quarters.” (Not the most eloquent or romantic proposal; but it worked.)  They were soon married and off to the big city: Kansas City.

 

Sarah promptly got a job as a secretary at a vending company.  Her husband kept insisting that if she was going to work it should be for the telephone company.  Finally after three years she interviewed with AT&T.  They wanted to hire her as a secretary, but she wanted something different.  She finally accepted a job in the clerical pool of the engineering department.  After a couple of months of total boredom she asked what did she have to do to become an engineer’s assistant? (an entry level management position).  She was told the minimum was to have college credits in algebra and trigonometry.  She quickly enrolled in night school; getting her credits. It wasn’t too long before her division manager scheduled her for management training.  If she passed the class the promotion would be hers.  However, before she could start, her husband got a transfer.  So being a loyal wife in the sixties she quit her job, packed her bags and moved to Sacramento.

 

Once there she applied for a position in the engineering department with Pacific Telephone.  They offered secretary or accounting.  But about a week before she started, after checking her references and talking to her former bosses, they called with a change in plans.  She was soon working as an engineering aide, a non-management position.  She worked for an engineer who encouraged her by sharing his knowledge and teaching her as much as she wanted to learn.  A few years later along came the beginnings of women’s lib and she was promoted to transmission engineer.

 

In the 18 years she and Roger were married they enjoyed traveling and sports.  She is still an avid Kansas City Chiefs fan.  Roger played slo-pitch and Sarah would go to his practices and workout with the team.  She also enjoyed bowling with a lifetime average of 163.  Roger’s niece needed a coach for a Bobby Sox softball team and Sarah took over as manager with Roger coaching.  She had so much fun she kept at it even after the niece outgrew her interest in the game. Sarah and Roger never had any children, but she says she always wanted some so she could tell them how she trudged two miles through the snow to school, uphill both ways.

 

At Pac Bell she continued to rise through the ranks to senior engineer where she found her niche as a project co-coordinator for major switching machine cutovers.  It was in this position that she got her big break.  California decided to have a lottery.  It was her job to get all those lottery machines hooked up to switching stations and routed to Sacramento.  No other state had ever accomplished this goal on time.  Sarah brought it in under budget and early.  On the positive side it earned her a standing ovation: personal congratulations from the company vice-president on down, a temporary promotion to Engineering Manager and $$$.  On the negative side a department head with a computer program in trouble thought she could save it necessitating a transfer to San Ramon.  Sarah declined the position; but after they offered a permanent promotion to engineering manager, a corporate apartment, a car and agreed to pay her per diem for Monday through Friday so she could continue to live in Sacramento, she took the job.  After two years she was tired of commuting, and since the company was offering a “golden handshake” she took it and walked away at the age of 50.

 

While working at Pac Bell she joined the bowling league.  One night a fellow bowler, knowing that she was divorced, asked if she’d like to go with a group of them out to a night of dinner and dancing.  Once there she noticed a nice looking man who was making a point of asking each woman in the group to dance.  After her turn, Bob never asked another lady for a dance.  It turned out they had a lot in common including both being engineers with the phone company.  They danced their way through thirty happy years of marriage: even belonging to a formal ballroom dance club for many years.  They also enjoyed taking golfing vacations including a yearly trip to Carmel.  It was on one of these jaunts that Sarah, approaching the 18th tee, was positive she was going to break 100 at Pebble Beach.  However, after hitting the ball over the cliff twice she took an 11 on the hole and recorded her score of 101.

 

Sarah loves traveling and with her first husband made many trips to foreign destinations. She encouraged Bob to join her in this hobby.  After one trip through Scandinavia and Russia he said he would never again leave home so if she wanted to travel she would have to go with her best friend, Donna.  So she did; until Bob became ill and her foot-loose days were over.  She says, “I want to see Australia, New Zealand and Africa.  Then I will have seen most of the world.  I hope I live long enough to see the Middle East, but I doubt it.”

 

In her 30’s Sarah had joyfully resumed playing softball: pitching in a Slo-pitch league in Elk Grove and both pitching and playing second base in a fast-pitch league in Folsom.  When an opposing player twice her size took her out at second she decided she was getting too old for this stuff and hung up her cleats.  However, now that she’s in her second childhood she realizes you’re never too old to play softball.  Although she says she wouldn’t go back on the pitcher’s mound without a knight’s suit of armor.

 

She and Bob moved here seven years ago and although she was somewhat tied down caring for Bob and her mother, who had Alzheimer’s, she found time to play softball, umpire and run the scoreboard.  She lost both Bob and her sister Linda within a week of each other a year ago and has really appreciated the support of her fellow softball players.  She says that the hugs, personally delivered condolences and phone calls kept her going and she can never thank each of you enough.

 

Sarah has been so impressed with the players in our league that she thought they would like to get to know more about each other, so she began this series of articles for the “Meet Your Fellow Players” feature on our website.

 

She is a dedicated duplicate bridge player, competing 2-3 times a week and you can usually find her name in the top three scorers.  She quilts to relax, reads a couple books a week and is a crackerjack Up-words player.  She has started shooting pool again and plans to resume playing golf; and at the ripe old age of ??? has determined to learn to play piano.  She is taking lessons and diligently practicing with a goal of playing boogie-woogie, rag-time and blues.

 

When asked to sum up what she thought of her journey from an ole country tomboy to a successful business executive to an active, vital senior citizen, Sarah said, “You’ve come a long way baby!”