
Meet Steve Russo
aka
Mr. Grand Slam
It’s time to meet the only player to hit a
grand slam in an All-Star game at the Lincoln Hills Softball Field. It is the highlight of Steve Russo’s athletic
career: and the fact that it occurred in the last game he will ever play makes
it even sweeter. If you’ve lived in a
cave for the last year he’ll be happy to tell you all the details; but most of
us have heard it m…a…n…y times.
Steve was born in San Francisco in May of 1947. Interestingly enough his life long best
friend whom he met in Jr. High was born at the same hospital a day later. Steve’s father was a fireman in San Francisco and his hero. He died in 2001 and Steve says he misses him
everyday. He stays in close touch with
his mother, younger brother, Jim, an electrician and younger sister, Laura, a
writer who lives in Alameda.
After a move to San Bruno when he was 11 he participated in
youth sports; especially baseball, a family favorite. He played both baseball and football at
Crestmoor High graduating in the first class of this new school.
Upon graduation he went to work at a
shipping company: Pacific Far East Lines where
he was content until the day his draft notice arrived. After reading the contents he called a few
friends and went out to drown his sorrows.
When he arrived home he found a friend of his father’s waiting for him
at the kitchen table. The friend asked
what was he going to do about it. Steve
replied, “There’s nothing I CAN do about it.
I guess I’m going to Viet
Nam.”
The friend said, “You do have one
choice. You can spend the next four
years sleeping in a muddy foxhole, eating out of can, dodging bullets or you can
go with me in the morning and enlist in the Navy and spend the war on a nice
warm ship with hot meals and big guns to shoot back with.” So the Navy it was. His first ship was the U.S.S. Topeka, a
long-range missile cruiser based near Europe. Eventually it was decided to mothball this
WWII vessel and they sailed into Boston
where Steve met his first wife, Jean. He
was transferred to the Joseph P Kennedy Jr., a destroyer where he continued his
work with the supply department and his luck continued with deployment back to Europe. Steve says
he hated every minute of his service time, but wouldn’t change it for the
world. It made a man of him. His mother was surprised to find that she no
longer had to tell him repeatedly to clean his room.
In 1970 after being discharged and having
married Jean he returned to San Bruno. He worked for a couple of years driving a
catering truck from business to business which he liked because he didn’t have
a boss telling him what to do. He also
was having a good time coaching Little League Baseball and Pop Warner Football
in an almost constant rotation. His wife
got fed up with his low paying job and his always being at some game or another
and insisted he use his GI bill and get a teaching credential so he could get paid
for doing what he loved. He got an AA degree at Skyline Junior College. While there he was a coach for the college
team. It was a rule that at least one
coach had to play in every game. One day
the third base coach was unable to play so Steve picked up a bat and walked to
the plate. The entire team shouted
encouragement as he quickly struck out swinging. But he wasn’t upset. The pitcher had an outstanding fastball and
Steve hadn’t held a bat in eight years.
It was his only at bat on the college team, however it did lead to him
playing rec ball. His first manager in
rec ball was John Alvergue who coincidentally now plays in LHSSL.
Jean was hired to teach in Modesto so
Steve switched his enrollment from San Francisco State to Cal-State Stanislaus;
getting a degree in Physical Education along with a teaching credential.
He
graduated with impeccable timing as California
passed Proposition 13 and the nation slipped into a recession. There were no teaching jobs to be found. He was so desperate he even interviewed
(along with 200 other applicants) for a home ec position. The students were probably lucky he didn’t
get the job as he didn’t strike us as a sewing, cooking and cleaning kind of
man.
A neighbor got him an interview to sell
insurance for All
State and he enjoyed a
successful career with them. He
continued to play both fast-pitch and slo-pitch softball in Modesto;
remembering that when they opened Rainbow Park he was the first player to cross
home plate at the new field.
He says he did time in Modesto for 23 years; however after his
marriage ended he made it a point to escape to other locales to PARTY. In 1997 on one of these sorties he met Eva at
a dance in Pleasanton. They hit it off and have been pretty much
together ever since. Eva feels very
lucky…both to have met Steve and for an even more dramatic life event. In 1989 she was riding home from her job at
the Bank of America
at the Embarcadero in a van pool when the van began to shake and she thought
they had a flat tire. The driver said,
“Don’t get excited. We don’t have a
flat. We’re having an earthquake.” He floored it and the passengers watched the Bay Bridge
collapse behind them.
As a realtor, Eva was given a freebie
week-end to Sun City Roseville. While there they drove over to Lincoln where construction
had just begun on Orchard Creek Club House.
Steve said he would like to see it in about a year after they had a
chance to finish some of the amenities.
Sure enough several months later they were spending a week-end at one of
the villas and falling in love with SCLH.
They moved here in September of 2001 and
despite not having played for seven years Steve joined the softball program
playing on First American Title; the eventual league champ that year He has been a mainstay of the league ever
since: playing, managing and umpiring.
He was Head Umpire for two years and served one term on the Board as
President.
He tries not to let his Parkinson’s
interfere with the things he loves; including softball. When he couldn’t run, he got a runner. When he could no longer bat, he underwent
controversial surgery last February where they rewired his brain. The surgery went well and he had dramatic
improvement in his symptoms: to the point where he was well enough to go on a
cruise to Alaska. Unfortunately the metal detector scrambled
the signals in the wiring in his brain and his symptoms have returned with a
vengeance. So he’s limited to managing
and when he coaches the bases the league insists he wear a helmet. (The whole
board came in mass to tell him he had to wear the helmet because not one of
them was brave enough to tell him alone.)
He also still loves writing poetry. A talent he discovered at an early age when
friends would ask him to write something nice for their girlfriends. He says he often finds inspiration in the
titles of songs. His last poem was in
honor of Dot Connors and he is sad that she passed shortly after he gave it to
her. But is gratified that he could put
Hal’s thoughts into words and she had a chance to read them.
When he first moved here he wrote on the
Compass staff, most memorably an interview with a rattlesnake. While he enjoyed it; he resigned when
management insisted the readers wanted straight reporting, not creative features.
Now he’s published from time to time in the Sun Senior News and the Lincoln Messenger and he is now working on a
poem to immortalize his grand slam.
The next time you see him ask for details
on his brush with fame as he appeared on Candid Camera. He tells the story much more colorfully than
we can write it.
Steve and Eva were married in September
2002 and love it here with their 12 year old Cocker-King Charles mix dog,
Polly. Steve said he wouldn’t want to
live anywhere else, although he could use a little less heat. Steve has a son, Adam, in Fresno and Eva has
2 daughters, 5 grandchildren and 5 great-grandchildren. They enjoy their families and friends and
Steve especially wanted to say: “I’m so
grateful to Eva who has been so supportive of me and for all the players in the
LHSSL who always ask how am I doing and spring to my aid when I fall. However, I am thinking of announcing that I
need a liver transplant, just to see who steps up to the plate.”
When talking about his Parkinson’s he says
his biggest problem is his hand shakes noticeably. Eva suggested that he keep it in his
pocket. Steve laughed and said he could
do that but people might get the wrong idea of what he was doing. Mary and I are stilling laughing at the
visual this gave us.